My mother hooked me on soap operas during my junior year of high school. "Days of Our Lives" was my introduction to the genre. My classes were over by 12Noon and I often came home to find her watching this show while eating her lunch. It was a fairly new soap opera at the time, a new generation of soap operas that included "General Hospital" and "One Life to Live". I remembered my babysitters and elders watching "Edge of Night", "Guiding Light", "As the World Turns" and "Search for Tomorrow" but this was the first soap I really watched. I watched it for the next seven years.
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"Days of Our Lives" cast probably in the 1970s |
My dad's secretary, Marty, loved "Days of Our Lives". During the summers I worked in Dad's office, Marty and I watched it together. We took great pleasure guessing what direction the multiple stories might veer off in. My mother eventually went back to work as Dad's bookkeeper and the three of us commiserated or rejoiced over the story lines. I can see us now in front of the small b/w portable he had set up in the reception area.
By the time I married, I could no longer luxuriate in the drama of Doug and Julie (illicit romantic couple), Addie (mother of Julie; originally married to Doug until Julie stole him away), Dr. and Mrs. Horton (the patriarchs whose children were all screwed up). I now had a succession of 9-5 jobs and pathetic 30 minute lunch breaks. "Days of Our Lives" was filtered through whatever my mom told me and, without the ability to watch, I gradually lost interest...or so I thought.
The invention of the VCR revived my interest. I had accessibility again. I was in my early thirties with a serious career and a husband who owned consumer electronic stores. He brought home various VCRs and Sony's Beta machine hoping to predict which format would win the video wars. Most of the original characters were still in place, at least, the ones I really liked. I became addicted for another few years. Mother and I could, once again, ruminate on Doug and Julie's undying love and what the new generation of "DOOL" characters were up to.
Once I had babies, I no longer had time to indulge. My lunch hour was spent breast feeding and I was so tired at night I didn't want to watch an endless saga of adultery, divorce, love affairs, jealousy, double-dealing and the like.
I eventually turned to evening soaps: Dallas, Knots Landing, 90210. My favorite episodic soap of all time was The West Wing. Nowadays I watch The Good Wife, Scandal, Nashville, Suits and the always mysterious Mad Men. I DVR everything so I may fast forward through commercials. My husband and grown sons think it's all crap. But I know better. It's a mindless flight of fantasy and I have 41 minutes to lose myself in someone else's life.
Some people shop. Some people drink. Some people knit. Some people exercise. I watch soaps.
Some people shop. Some people drink. Some people knit. Some people exercise. I watch soaps.
It's therapy.

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